That’s just how people from Tumblr work, man. It’s not “creeping” so much as being paranoid about maintaining your own emotional bubble, and on top of that, other paranoia about being in the absolute moral right at all times. I’ve tried that before and it’s exhausting and makes you miserable.
I really think the solution to this is that someone needs to convince this person to just… not interact with fandom spaces anymore and take a detox from the internet. Fandoms aren’t all that they’re cracked up to be, having a shared interest doesn’t guarantee you’re going to be friends with the other people in it, and we’re all better off not wasting our time on people we don’t get along with. Internet paranoia makes things worse across the board.
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no joke, this guy also snuck into my house overnight and moved the coffee table so I'd bump my shin into it in the morning, scary stuff