I'm still reading the whole doc, I usually don't read them because most of the time they are callouts that don't bring that much except drama, but in this case my guts told me to go read it and my gosh....it's painful to read it and I'm deeply sorry these people had to deal with this individual. I send them my virtual hug and emotional support, but I also feel I would like to do something more concrete. Would you mind if I made a blog post about cycle abuse where I link your journal and the Google document? I would like to educate a bit about abusive and toxic relationships since I experienced them in the form of friendships (friendship bombing notably but not only). I personally think that education on these topics can help people and potential victims because there is still a lot to do in terms of education. When I discover there are stupid trends on TikTok where young girls (13-14 years old) compete with each other on who has the most jealous boyfriend as if glorifying and normalizing toxic dynamics is a cool trend to follow.
I also want to thank you from the deep of my heart for this blog. I was totally unaware of this shit happening. Thank you for giving these victims a voice and a place to be respected.
shadowfals
I'm not sure I can handle delving into this while crises are happeng closer to me, but I still want to thank you for the link. Whatever this Wandaboy situation is, it looks like a huge concern.
UNCLEREGZ
wanda's bullshit allegedly reaches all the way back to 2-3 years ago, and there are claims of him saving and sharing around the nudes of the girls he talked to.
the most fucked up thing in this whole situation is that everyone knew what he got up to, but said absolutely nothing, or even defended him.